Silence Hurts
Alcohol Abuse and Violence Against Women
Timing for Batterer Intervention/Relapse Prevention
Some substance abuse counselors wait 90 days before enrolling a man in a batterer's intervention program. However, violence is a powerful relapse trigger than can sabotage recovery, especially in the early stages. There are other concerns regarding partner abuse intervention:
- Clients may be resistant to counseling and may not appreciate the confrontational nature of batterers' groups.
- Some clients may be neurologically impacted by alcohol and drugs and may not be able to participate fully in a group setting.
- Clients may have some cognitive and educational deficiencies, which can impact their capacity to take responsibility for the violence.
- Denial is a strong component in both substance abuse and batterer programs.
Relapse prevention seems to work best when the client looks at batterer intervention programs as a way to stay sober. Professionals can stress to clients that being held accountable for a violence-free life and sobriety are linked in a number of ways:
- In the Twelve Steps of AA/NA, inventory steps emphasize that the person needs to hold himself/herself accountable by admitting "to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs." In the eighth and ninth steps, participants are required to make a "list of persons we have harmed" and become "ready to make direct amends to them all."26
- The cognitive-behavioral approach helps men recognize the relationship between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
- Most religious traditions have some form of "Golden Rule." Stress the importance of spirituality and relationships in ways that emphasize the destructive quality of violence and addiction.
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